It's a matter of a choice...
This week was an eye opener for me.. it hit me! I mean how come I lose track of what’s going on.. sometimes when we’re so worked up about things happening in our everyday life we kinda forget what really matters..
I’ve been so busy to the point I accept things I don’t like or approve of, but when I reflect about what happend during the day.. I ask myself why didn’t I do something about it?! Being a victim is much easier than confronting the problem especially when you have so many things to do..
After solving the little problem I had on Saturday which I had been putting off for a month now.. I was telling myself how easy it was.. how come I forgot that whatever happens to me is just a result of a choice I made and I have to accept whatever situation I put myself in. Whining about the things that happen to us in our lives isn’t the solution.. YOU ARE STILL whining about them.. We need to focus and think about how do we want to face the various challenges we come across.
Had a talk with Mai the other day about making choices in life and how sometimes life forces certain challenges we hate upon us.. we don’t want to live them.. we don’t want to go through them..they are hard! Well, hey that’s life who said it’s going to be easy?! The only thing we can do is accepting whatever comes in our way and choose our attitude towards it. Gather your strength and do your best to make things work for you!
My friend Bees is a great example, (Bees! YOU ARE EXTRAORDINARY GIRL! Love ya!) she has been through a rough patch over the past couple of weeks.. Yesterday got a phone call from her (after playing our little Tom & Jerry game :-p) telling me about all the major changes she has made to better her situation. I’m proud of you babe! ;-)
It’s amazing to have a good friend who will listen to you whining about how bad things are then looks at you saying ‘Okay, what do you need to do now to solve this mess?’ If you already have one.. hold on to them tight and never lose them! If you don’t.. Then keep looking, we usually attract those who are like us into our lives. ;-)
Love you girls! You know who you are! My life wouldn’t be the same without you! ;-)
