What Happened to All the Nice Girls?
Today’s post is written by a dear friend of mine ArabicRihanna from twitter. She’s one of the most fascinating people I’m blessed to know. A smart young lady with a distinguished sense of humor. I could go on talking about her, but I know she wouldn’t want me to do so as she’s a very humble person. So I’ll leave you to read the post now.
But before you do, I highly recommend you read “What Happened to All the Nice Guys? first, as this post is written to answer this question.
Enjoy! ;)
I saw this answer posted with some foolishness on CraigsList, so I thought I’d take a minute to explain things to the gentlemen out there that haven’t figured it out.
What happened to all the nice girls?
The answer is simple: you did too.
See, if you think back, really hard, you might vaguely remember a shy girl who always seemed to want to spend time with you. She’d make time for you, hang out with you, and be extremely kind to you. She’d even listen to your dilemmas with other girls. She’d offer you advice on how to treat them right. Just like she wanted you to treat her.
Remember that shy girl who was always standing on the side, looking at young people mingle and be merry?
Well she had her eyes on you, but she was sure as hell that she would never catch your attention. You see, you were young and full of potential. Girls were literally running after you, flirting with you, ready to fall at your feet if you only winked at them.
You were funny, full of energy and, admittedly, full of charm. You had everything you wanted, and scored the best girls.
But let’s be real, the best girls were those after which other guys were running. It was a mere competition on the hottest chick out there. And you, like many other guys like yourself, wanted to win that competition.
Remember that shy girl on the side?
Well she sat there, looking at you, looking at those girls, and looking at herself. She actually had to review her entire set of principles to see what was wrong with her. What made other girls successful with guys and not her?
And you know what happened to that shy girl? She’s happily engaged in her professional life and getting slowly past the traditional “right maternity age”. She’s bravely dealing with society’s pressure to get married, to just about anyone.
And instead of turning into a douche and blaming it on the not-so-nice guys out there, shy girls know how to pick their battles wisely and remain true to themselves.
And you? You have lost your charm, and your energy has turned into bitterness. The old hot chicks got married to someone else. The new hot chicks wouldn’t even give you a look, because there are younger and hotter dudes around.
So, if you’re looking for a nice girl, here’s what you do:
- Build a time machine.
- Go back a few years and pull your head out of your behind.
- Take a look at what’s right in front of you and grab a hold of it.
Or I suppose you just want to get over your infantile choice in girls and act like your age. In which case I suggest that you screen girls with your mom’s eyes, and finally settle with one of her friends’ daughters. Because a former hot chick in your scene, who’s equally bitter as you are, will prefer someone who’s younger and richer.
Too late for you, douche!
Sincerely,
A Recovering Nice Girl
